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AITA for calling out my sister for not making her wedding accessibility friendly for FAMILY For context, I (34F) am a single mom to my daughter Mia (8F). Mia has been disabled since the day she was born and needs wheelchair assistance and constant care whenever she is awake.OP isn't obligated to attend his sister's wedding and it's reasonable for him to be upset. But his sister isn't being malicious in refusing to out someone. From what it sounds like, Julie was still coming to terms with it herself, and being outed when you're not ready to come out can be legitimately traumatic.My sister lives in the Midwest and I live on the coast. She told me this weekend over the phone that she is planning her wedding for March on a Tuesday. She wants me to be her maid of honor and my daughters (1 and 3) to be …Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be an asshole for telling my daughter that I will not pay for her wedding or walk her down the isle until she invites her siblings she excluded …NTA for protecting and defending your daughter, but YWBTA if you continue to keep her in a home environment where she is clearly not safe from cruel tactics of destroying her entire self esteem. Your husband should be ashamed he raised such a disgusting pig while continuing to defend and join in on treating your daughter in vile, crude ...OOP commented that the aunt was helping plan the wedding until her and the bride got into an argument that resulted in the aunt not even attending the wedding. Gonna guess that the aunt tried to steer her niece in a better direction but the self-absorbed ninny was having none of it.But I understood that my adult daughter had made her choice in life. So I thanked her mom for making sure my parents got an invitation. Then I went back to my life. I have a newborn that needs my attention. Well I have been hearing from her family now. Apparently I'm the asshole who doesn't even care that in not invited to my daughter's wedding.I told her what my boundaries are and if my brother is invited then I will not pay my part of the wedding. She became angry and told me its time to let go of the past. I told her its not her call to make. We argued some more and she told me I am making her wedding about myself. I told her I will probably not even attend so it will be all about her.Not the A-hole. (fake names) My (28m) childhood best friend Brad (28m) is getting married in late May to Vicky (26f). A week ago, on Easter I received his wedding invite which only listed my name but not my gf ,Mary (28f). For context, Brad, Mary and I have known each other since high school . We were in the same friend group.AITA for accepting money from my parents for my wedding then eloping? "My parents gave each of my brothers $50,000 when they graduated from university as a down payment on their home. But not ...I lost my only baby at 13 wks into my pregnancy; almost 11 yrs ago. My sister had her 3rd baby, my amazing, beautiful niece 3 wks before my due date. I love her so much and spoil her a lot, as the "fun Aunt". She really is truly amazing; smart and kind, respectful to others.All gold material and again they are worth decent amount of money. My BIL has been with then gilfriend for 10 years and they recently got married. It was a huge deal for the family. My husband wanted to get them a decent wedding gift and tried borrowing money from friends and neighbors but got turned down.AITA-throw-wedding. AITA for not attending my step daughter's wedding? Not the A-hole. I (46M) have been married to "Kate" (48F) for over a decade. Kate has two daughters from her previous marriage, "Selena" (29F) and "Amy" (25F). We have a daughter "Lynn" (12F) together. Two years ago Selena got married and although I was ...She quietly said, I was hoping that after the wedding you could become a holiday visit only dad, I didn't want her in the wedding so she wouldn't be in the photos around the house since she wasn't going to be around much. I kept my cool, calmly took her hand, and pulled my engagement ring off. Her eyes started to tear up, she said we ...Same here (German). Kids are a vital part of weddings - you are joining two families, and not just the adults. At my own wedding, there were all my cousins. As I am the eldest daughter of a eldest daughter, there was one or two who were 18. Never in my wildest dreams would I exclude my cousins - and especially not my siblings.My brother didn't really even invite me, he send a invitation to my parents. My mom called my brother to ask if I'm invited and he said "no but i guess she can come if she wants". I told my mom I'm not going because I don't want to and obviously he doesn't want me there. My mom said I'm being a bad sister and petty for not going, so AITA?My fiancé is on my side though and thinks it best I don't let her come or at least not come to the reception. I know it might seem a bit unfair for me to not let her get back at me but I didn't pay the 15k pity money just for her to try to ruin my wedding years later. We are both adults and at this point I think I could be being overdramatic.AITA for taking my daughter and leaving the wedding after her stepbrother pulled her wig? Not the A-hole My daughter (16) Megan just finished her cancer treatment, she's lost her hair in the process and she's been incredibly insecure because of it. ... We went to the wedding and everything was going well til this happened. We were all sitting ...Recently, she announced her wedding date, and to my shock, it was on Emily's birthday. When I confronted her, she claimed it was the only available date, but something in her tone made me doubt her sincerity. I tried to talk to her, explain how painful it would be for me, but she dismissed my feelings, saying I should move on and that her ...By Soo Kim. Life & Trends Reporter. FOLLOW. A mom refusing to attend her daughter's wedding because her stepdaughter was not invited has received a storm of criticism on Reddit. The post was...Kingsley refuses to talk to me or my parents. Assuming you care what your sister and/or her future husband think, this is the point to respond with. Not that you won't babysit him, but that you can't. Message: Dear [sister] and [future BIL] I know you are stressed about how Kingsley will handle the wedding.

23 May 2023 ... AITA for not attending my sisters wedding after she almost didn't invite me because I'm under 18? · Comments82.She was NOT going to order special food for my wife (no one asked her to, my wife was fine with whatever she was going to be served.) I was not helping the groom enough, he had to help her with favors, seating charts and programs, so I had to help him with those things, according to her. She also said to get ready to help with thank you notes ...My sister knows this, so I assumed with her asking me to be in the wedding, that the wedding would be childfree. During a discussion, she mentioned her fiancé's best friend's daughter would be serving as flower girl and our cousin's son would be ring bearer.Go with your boyfriend, drink and eat, dance and have fun. Don't worry about your brother, or his future wife. Chat with your extended family, say hi to people you haven't seen for a while. You'll feel worse if you don't go, especially if there's fallout with your parents for not going. get_lizzy.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.

Not the A-hole. A good friend of mine I grew up with is having a destination wedding. It costed about $800 for my fiancee and I to fly out and stay in a air BNB for the weekend of the wedding. About 2 months before the wedding the bride texts my fiancee and tells her she is uninvited to the wedding because she cannot make the bridal shower.It happens. I was 20 When my mom died, everything fell on me for the most part. My older brother helped when I asked, but 100% of my measly check went into the house. I coordinated all the other financials like ssi payments, state aid, made sure everything was paid and food in the house not to mention bulk of cleaning while caretaking my grandma.…

Reader Q&A - also see RECOMMENDED ARTICLES & FAQs. NTA, it's called a wedding invitation, not an attendance. Possible cause: aitatadad83772. ADMIN MOD. AITA refusing to attend my sister's wedding for ex.