The father of the bride holds a special place in a wedding ceremony. As he walks his daughter down the aisle, he not only gives her away to her new partner but also has an opportun...Part of my reasoning is attributed to her bff not making any concession to see our newborn. She blames the lack of funds from wedding planning as the reason...but she has traveled abroad twice within the last 18 months. These were relatively impromptu travels...nothing planned long term. So my wife has made it clear she is going with the baby ...NTA Both parents should be at the graduation. The absence of the bride's parents should speak volumes about the selfish nature of their daughter. Either way you and your husband decide to go, feelings will be hurt. The graduation is on a set date and the wedding could have been scheduled for another day.Establish the amount of $$ you are willing to provide and give her the budget. Tell her anything above that is on her and her fiance. Make sure to tell her if that includes travel, etc for the bridal couple and family members. If she wants a blow out wedding, she can pay for it. Reply reply.Posted on Feb 15, 2022. This Woman Is Marrying Her Sister's Ex-Fiancé, And Her Mom Wants To Know If She'd Be An A**hole For Attending The Wedding. "My youngest …honeymooneraita. AITA For not paying for my daughter's honeymoon after she canceled her wedding. Not the A-hole. My wife and I have 3 kids (36M, 32F, & 25F). We have had agreements with all of our kids that we would help pay for up to $10K for their weddings, or use that same amount towards a down payment on their first home.My daughter inlwas a sham with 2 kids, my son is the breadwinner. From what I understand he puts child care and other responsibilities upon her using the "I'm the money maker" excuse. I noticed she hasn't tagged along with him in any visit for a while. My daughter's wedding was days ago, I asked my son if his wife was coming with him but he ...So her wedding dress size reflects that. She passed away two years ago so she will can not attend our daughters wedding that will be in 2025. Now my daughter wants to wear the dress and I told her it wouldn’t be a good idea since she won’t be able to squeeze into it. She told me she can just up the size of it and I told her I would think ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.AITA, UPDATE aita for not going to my sister's wedding. So it's been about a month since I posted and it's been a fun one. So my sister received a couple of ultimatums, the first was from her fiance who told her that if she didn't apologize for how she acted and what she said, that he would call off the wedding.Clearly too old for her. He didn't even ask my blessing. She got mad I wasn't supportive. She invited me out to a dinner with Kyle and his parents. I said that I was busy working. Days later she gave me texted me, not an invatation thing just a text, an invite to the wedding. I told her that I didn't approve of the marrage and it was a huge ...AITA for not attending my daughters wedding. Ok so I went to the wedding with Caitlin On the day of the wedding Caitlin woke up bright and early she was very excited for the wedding She wore a smart black suit she looked amazing and she felt it. We went to the ceremony and done the basic hello and nod to a few people but then FSILS mum and dad ...S looked at my funny and then said that she didn't think that P would "fit the part". I got angry and told S that my daughter would be in our wedding. S started to become upset and said that the girls in the wedding were up to her and P wouldn't be one of them. I told S that if P wasn't in the wedding then there might not be a wedding.Weddings are joyous occasions filled with love, laughter, and happy memories. As the father of the bride, you have a special role to play in creating a memorable experience for you...I understand her wedding her choice, but I'm not okay with including one of my daughters but not the other. Problem is my 7 yr old daughter really wanted to go, she's a real "girly girl" loves pretty dresses, princesses, fairies, and yes brides too.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: i turned down the wedding invitation and refused to attend. 2) everyone else said i should be happy for my friend and that I was being petty and jealous, but i feel that is not the point at all. Help keep the sub engaging!As a response, I told her that if she feels that way, then I won't be paying for her wedding. I don't want to come across as controlling or manipulative. It's true, I don't "own" her, I also don't owe her a fully-funded wedding. She can pay for her own wedding if she's insistent on this stance. I'm feeling quite conflicted about this. AITA?In today’s fast-paced world, it’s important to take a moment to express our love and gratitude for the special people in our lives. One meaningful way to do this is by gifting Enes...My daughter then says on social media that she doesn't understand how a loving dad can turn into an expat male pig because young local women were giving " him" attention. Completely false, but she never apologized for it. When I married my wife, my daughter refused to come even though my ex said they could go. My son did come, but my daughter ...The whole time during my engagement, she kept on coming on front of me to get her pictures taken. On the wedding, she was "upset" because no one was paying attention to her. Yes, she literally said that out loud. At the reception, she tried to take the knife from me to cut our reception cake. After that a series of unfortunate events from her ...Due to the fear of their reactions at my wedding I also asked Vivian to wear a suit to the wedding.”. Then we have this comment “my stepdaughter has been crying in her room the past few weeks.”. So which is it this week or a few weeks, I think it’s a troll, a shitty transphobic troll. 47.I do not have a relationship with my dad or his daughter. He will call me sometimes and I don't answer. But if I see him, and he knows where I work so it happens, I won't make a scene either. Anyway, I'm getting married. I did not invite my dad or his daughter. He apparently knew I was getting married and that invites were sent out via a family ...Likewise, there is zero chance of us refusing to go to the wedding or cutting her out of the will. In life, people disagree - even strongly - it's a natural part of life. We don't end life-long relationships over it. UPDATE: For all the YTA people out there, I've decided to give my daughter a gift in the same amount as her older sister's ...Key-Summer-3970. AITA for not going to my daughter BBQ wedding celebration. Not the A-hole. I will try to keep this short and to the point. My daughter eloped and is doing a BBQ event to celebrate. I was informed that it is at the end of the month. The issue is that she chose to have this near her husbands family that is on the other side of ...I then went home and let my wife and daughter know and Julie asked me to please decline since she wanted to be the first to be walked down the aisle and since she asked first, thinks that I have a stronger commitment to her. I agreed since this is more of an Us thing rather than an after-though like Marie's wedding.I think you should do what you can to have a smooth co-parenting relationship and that includes letting your daughter be there for his special days. This woman is going to be her stepmother, at least for a while. It's in your daughter's best interest to be part of their family from the beginning and not create a situation of acrimony.AITA for not attending my step daughter's wedding? AITA for not attending my step daughter's wedding? ... She needs to go on an apology tour asap. 10. 1h. Antoinette Bates. NTA..Amy brought this all on herself. And don't be surprised her fiancé is on her side..You said NO..Now stick to it. 6. 1h.She complains that they can’t afford the wedding since they are both too young and reminded me it was a promise I made. Everyone including her mom is calling me selfish, …AITA_72562. ADMIN MOD. AITA for using my daughter's college fund to pay for my son's masters? Asshole. I (58F) have two children, Anna (26F) and Logan (32M). Both are college graduates and doing good, my husband (who has sadly pass away) and I set college fund for both of them, Logan used his when he went to college but Anna got a full ride to ...Not the A-hole. My sister is getting married next month to my best friend. She always wanted a nice snow wedding in the cabins we used to go to when we were in school. Everything was going fine until she told me it was a child free wedding. Now, that would be fine with my wife and I because we would just drop of my son and daughter at my wife's ...but her comment make no sense. if the 5 year old NT child is prone to meltdowns, so is the 6 year old. I’m not saying the child should be there but it’s just weird to say that because the kid is 5 she’s more likely to have a meltdown because of her disorder when the 6 year old is also likely to have a meltdown because of the same disorder.Throwaway-8841. AITA for not contributing to my daughter’s wedding. Not the A-hole. I (55M) have a daughter (29F) who is getting married next year. I was an involved dad when she was young and we were close. But when she was in her teens I cheated on her mother. My daughter didn’t accept the divorce well.Now as I write this my ex wife informed me my daughter was crying her eyes out over the phone due to my son and I not attending her wedding, she said she didn't want to get married if her brother and dad weren't there and she actually called the wedding off, after months of planning her dream wedding she and her fiancé decided to elope instead then take their honeymoon to Switzerland.Then at the wedding make a speech. Start off sappy talking about growing up with your dad and then he met fiancé. Smile sweetly and tell them that they are made for each other… for being trash having an affair and abandoning his terminally ill wife. Leave a card at the gift table signed: ╭∩╮ (･ ･)╭∩╮.AITA For not inviting my sister to my wedding and telling my father that he can go walk the daughter he actually cared about down the aisle? Not the A-hole My sister (31F) Stephanie was our parents’ golden child while me (28F) and my other sister (33F) Emily were always an afterthought.NTA. Your dad needs to wake up or you need to stop talking to him. Do not go to this wedding. These are not jokes. This woman is unhinged. You're a child that lost her mother, and she's making fun of it. No no no.If the daughter wants her parents’ full involvement in and support of the wedding, she needs to grow up and talk to them about why she’s been lying to them for a decade. This. in order for her family to be happy at the wedding, the bride and OP need to have a chat BEFORE the wedding to clear the air and move on.The only relevant people to this story are my bio daughter Emily and Lora my step daughter I’ve been in my step daughters life since she was 6 years old I see her as a daughter I swore I’d never be like my step father and treat a child differently because of something silly like dna, emliy hates Lora and has turned her brothers against her ...6 Mar 2023 ... here we go again with a dramatic story that involves people getting into it with each other over what's going to happen (or not happen) at a ...There also may be hurt feelings about the fact that you're treating this just like any other wedding. My mom has a few go-to wedding outfits, but for my brother's wedding she specifically picked out something new because she was really excited about the occasion. I've seen aunts and friends do the same, so I don't think it's uncommon.30 Aug 2021 ... ... about their wedding being child free? Story 5: AITA for not wanting to pass down my enggement ring to my future DIL? #AITA #Parenting #Weddings.I (50f) have 2 step-children, Sarah (23f) and Mike (28m). I have been in their lives since Sarah was 2. Sarah's mom Kate was a drug addict, when Sarah was 3 she lost all her parental rights because of her addiction. Kate left after that and didn't have any contact until Sarah was 17. That's when Kate reached out to us saying she was clean and ...Maybe not for you, but it depends. My daughter is autistic. She is very bright and can generally function quite well, but she finds children incredibly stressful. They're loud, they're unpredictable, they're generally very difficult for her to be around for long periods of time.My sister's wedding was last week. We live hours away which is an issue for my husband. When we first got the invite he told me that he wasn't going, that he will stay for the kids and suggested I do the same. Since the wedding doesn't allow kids and my husband doesn't want to hire a babysitter after the one we had robbed us.Concluded: Situation seems over Originally posted in - r/AITA by u/ThrowRA-Scam200K Number of updates - 2, Short Original - July 28, 2023 . Update - August 2, 2023 . Original - July 28, 2023 . I 49M will keep this as short as possible but basically my step daughter 25F wants to marry her boyfriend 25M which was fine and all, I had the money to pay for the wedding what could possibly go wrong?But, on the flip side, if I insisted that he not be at the wedding, I'd have ZERO expectation that the wedding would still be at his house. I'd want no connection between my wedding and this guy. But, both Carla and Rick did when most people are confronted with deep, emotional anger: blame someone else.This past week, my friends Joe and Sally told our friend group that they would be having a second wedding, for the sake of Sally's family, in [insert foreign country here for anonymity]. The dates for the wedding would be ~1-2 months from now in early January. They've been talking about this wedding for years now, but due to Covid nothing ...I told her what my boundaries are and if my brother is invited then I will not pay my part of the wedding. She became angry and told me its time to let go of the past. I told her its not her call to make. We argued some more and she told me I am making her wedding about myself. I told her I will probably not even attend so it will be all about her.Then yestersay she said if i want her to cheap out on her wedding dress on her wedding day that she needs to really consider if we are a good match for marriage. ... DR fiancee can get similar dress for around $100 with shipping online but wants to blow over $1000 at a local wedding dress boutique aita for saying to get a cheaper one online ...My wedding was September 21st, 2019. We had a fairly decent sized wedding. My cousin (on my stepdads side - we are not close whatsoever) and her boyfriend have only been dating not even 6 months at this point. I’ve met the guy once before my wedding and he never shows up to any family functions. We’re all having a great time at my wedding.I tried going to a wedding like that and spent the whole time bawling my eyes out because of my dead fiancé. You’re in the right and they will blame you if you show any grief at the wedding. And ImpyreanSky said: NTA at all, OP! Your feelings are valid and you have a right to your grief! There is no timeline or deadline for grief.Today my daughter called me unhappy that no one but us confirmed (my husband doesn't have family on his side) and her family part was empty and she expected everyone to go on that date, even more so after she explained the reason to them abou the date, but they still refused.A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!Slut-for-HEAs. AITA for not wanting to attend my friend's wedding if I can't bring my fiancee? Not the A-hole. My (27F) best friend (25F, Megan) from high school is getting married this summer to her fiance (27M), who also went to the same high school as us. After high school, we went our separate ways due to education, but we still have kept ...AITA for not going to my daughters wedding? The wedding was on march 25, which coincides with my other daughters birthday. She was born March 25, 2022. She was …Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I feel conflicted because I feel I am downplaying my brother and SILs grief, who I admit were insanely supportive when my daughter was first …Technical-Ad7912. AITA for not inviting my daughter to my wedding. Not the A-hole. I (47) have been low contact with my daughter, Noelle for three years at this point. I went low contact with her. There is a lot that happens but my last straw when she was 23 stole my credit card and racked up close to 4,000. There is a lot more to it but that ...I comforted my daughter over the phone, and went to go pick her up soon after Amara said she didn't want to be at Bree's house anymore. Once I got there, I helped Amara put her bag into the trunk before going to Bree to confirm the story. Bree confirmed it, and doubled down on what she said hard. I was irritated at that and soon left with Amara.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I refuse to go to my brothers wedding (2) cause he's my brother after all but I just don't wanna go.My daughter-in-law was happy to get the $400 cathedral veil for free and I was happy to give it to her. My son's mother-in-law thanked me for my generosity and I said it was my pleasure. This was a great way for me to have some input on the wedding in a way that benefits everyone. Two years ago was my older daughter's wedding.NTA it's your wedding. Reply. Award. ZeroZipZilchNadaNone. •. NTA. You have a valid reason to not engage with her, which obviously means not inviting her. Tell your sister that you want her (your sister) and family there and will be heartbroken if they don't attend. However, niece is not invited or allowed.An 'AITA for using my daughter's college fund for my stepson's rehab' has outraged users who think the OP's husband is out of order for guilt tripping a young girl into giving his son money.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I charged my brother the money he owes me and will not be attending his wedding knowing I'm hurting our parents since our actions have drifted our family apartI scheduled to visit my daughter in prison for her birthday and prior I told my niece that I could only make it to the church wedding but not the reception and paying for the meal there, I'd be going after the wedding. I did lie to her about the reason because my daughter's situation is obviously a very painful thing.Published Mar 25, 2022 at 12:06 PM EDT. By Samantha Berlin. Writer, Trends. Commenters were quick to support a father who claimed that he refused to pay for his daughter's wedding after she told ...The wedding is in the beginning of August. A few months ago Olivia asked my wife if she could use the dress for her wedding and my wife gave her the dress so Olivia could get it fitted with plenty of time. Tuesday Olivia asked me to go with her to pay some vendors, one of the stops was the tailor shop for a final fitting and pay the seamstress.Another reason to avoid the whole mess. I have never heard of an overflow wedding in my life. It's sounds rude, and disrespectful AF. And as already mentioned probably only done to get gifts . If you can only invite a hundred people to a wedding, then 50 for the bride's 50 for the groom's side. And it's not just her wedding it's his too.OOP: I am not homophobic. I support my daughter, I have just been surprised and am struggling. I have gotten direct messages telling me that I am right not to give my daughter the dress because they are homophobic and think she should not be getting married. If I didn't feel so strongly about the dress I would give it to her simply to spite them.As a response, I told her that if she feels that way, then I won't be paying for her wedding. I don't want to come across as controlling or manipulative. It's true, I don't "own" her, I also don't owe her a fully-funded wedding. She can pay for her own wedding if she's insistent on this stance. I'm feeling quite conflicted about this. AITA?Again: your values are yours, and you only get to impose them on yourself. You may not force someone else, especially an adult, to adhere to your values. You can withhold the money for whatever reason you want, but you can't dictate what your daughter does for her wedding (especially in the absence of those funds). Reply reply.Throwaway-8841. AITA for not contributing to my daughter’s wedding. Not the A-hole. I (55M) have a daughter (29F) who is getting married next year. I was an involved dad when she was young and we were close. But when she was in her teens I cheated on her mother. My daughter didn’t accept the divorce well.I feel kind of guilty for making this post but I need advice and guidance. I(24m) decided to not go to my mom's(47f) wedding because of her fianceé's(52m) behavior. I've tried many times to let things go but I don't know if I can anymore. The first instance happened at a Thanksgiving at my mom's place.My sister is 9 and I am nearly 21 and I can not even fathom treating her the way OPs sister treats her. She is like my everything and I want her to be part of my life and I hope that in the future she would always want me to be part of her life too. OP is not obligated to go to the wedding and she has every right to be hurt for feeling excluded.But, on the flip side, if I insisted that he not be at the wedding, I'd have ZERO expectation that the wedding would still be at his house. I'd want no connection between my wedding and this guy. But, both Carla and Rick did when most people are confronted with deep, emotional anger: blame someone else.My sister's wedding was last week. We live hours away which is an issue for my husband. When we first got the invite he told me that he wasn't going, that he will stay for the kids and suggested I do the same. Since the wedding doesn't allow kids and my husband doesn't want to hire a babysitter after the one we had robbed us.In the post titled "AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's wedding even if I promised to?" the man, 39, explained that his daughter, 21, is getting married in June and that ever...The Wedding Dress Dilemma. When it comes to weddings, emotions can run high and expectations can often clash. In my case, the situation revolved around my oldest daughter’s wedding dress. As the big day approached, tensions arose when I made the decision not to pay for her wedding dress. This led to a heated debate within the …He took to Reddit to ask “AITA” for not wanting to pay for his daughter’s dream of a destination wedding 9,000 miles away, calling the affair a “pointless showing of wealth.” …I felt terrible with no family members of my own to support me and share my joy at my wedding. I even broke down crying after the ceremony. I haven't spoken to them for months and then got busy with my 4 weeks old daughter. My cousin reached out to hand me gifts and well wishes for the birth of my daughter sent from my family. I returned ...Girl you go! My fiance (I'm 28f and he's 35m) has an abusive father who did horrible things to his mother, whose an absolute saint, as well as him and his siblings. He hasn't spoken to his POS father in well over a decade, nor does he ever want to again. ... AITA for not attending my daughters wedding?Me and my sister are twins, she's engaged and is going through the whole process of planning her wedding and I'm helping out. Recently, we've been wedding dress shopping and she hasn't found a dress yet; she really likes the mermaid dress style, so I'm sending her pictures on Pinterest for inspiration and such.CultureFantastic4947. ADMIN MOD. AITA for cutting off support to my daughter? Not the A-hole. I (52M) have three children with my ex Tracy (50F), Michael (28M), Linda (25F), and Victoria (23F). We split because Tracy had an affair with Stan (55M) to whom she is now married. We never shared with the kids the reason for the divorce as I didn't ...Her HS graduation in 2020 was canceled due to lockdown, then her ceremony for her AA was virtual for the same reason, so now that she’s finally having one, my not going has really hurt her. I told my ex that I’d go to her next one, and that it’s not fair that I just not show up for her brother.Everyone Sucks. So my fiancee and I are getting married in 9 months. She's been dress shopping with her girls for months now. She found the dress she loved and bought it, and was too excited to keep it a secret. She showed me pics of the bridesmaids dresses and I told her they were pretty, they match my groomsmens suits really well.NTA for trying to keep to the word count. Also NTA for not wanting to be dealing with meeting/getting to know your half-sister at your wedding. If your wedding is child-free, then your father should not be trying to force a 13-14 yo in. Sadly, he has shown that he favours his new daughter over you.1)Plan a wedding in the theme of your daughter's favorite movie, My daughter's hair is not going to change color and need a hair stylist to dye i, Go with your boyfriend, drink and eat, dance and have fun. Don't worry about your brother, , Due to the fear of their reactions at my wedding I also asked Vivian to wear a , Original (16 Jan 23) AITA for skipping my stepdaughter's wed, Worldly-Surprise6288. AITA for saying I will not attending my daughters wedding. N, AITA for ruining my daughter's surprise proposal? Info: This happens to me , Edit: for those questioning the age gape of my parents I was adopte, BallFinal2037. ADMIN MOD. AITA for wearing jeans to , It's not like it's her great grandmothers dr, Not going to my dad's wedding and he is very angry wit, Weddings are joyous occasions filled with love, laughter, , Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide , What you want is a wedding where no one has any ty, situations, including one of the members of their bridal part, 31 Jan 2021 ... Step-Daughter Wants Me To Pay For Her Weddi, The sister has given her five months notice which is plenty of time t, As a mother of the bride, you want to look your best on your daughte.